One, two, three.

Last week, I recorded a video on my computer of me reading a letter that I wrote to my Aunt Marlene. I emailed the video to my Uncle for him to play it to her. For the past three plus years, my Aunt has been battling cancer, and she’s put up a hell of a fight. But it is now her final few days here on Earth with us, and then cancer, once again, will get the best of my family. Multiple myeloma in this case. I am sure the majority of you reading this have been affected in your own personal ways by this awful disease. I am not at all writing this post with the intention for sympathy, I am, however, writing it for the following three reasons.

One. As a reminder to tell those that you love, you love them. Go out of your way to see or spend time with them or write them a heartfelt note or call them—whatever you can do, take a minute to make their day. Every chance you get. You never know how quickly things can change.

Two. As a tribute to my Aunt Marlene. She is an inspiration to me in so many ways—her relentless work ethic, her courage to take risks, her independent nature, her tell-it-like-it-is personality, her spirituality, her warm and loving way with everyone she meets, her dedication to all she puts her heart into. Marlene radiates life and beauty from the inside-out. Even during her cancer battle, she’s been a teacher and a leader. Even in her roughest times, she’s shown strength and humor. Love you, Aunt Mar.

Three. To remind people to live. It’s that simple. I know it may not always seem that easy, but whatever “living” means to you, do it. Don’t just get by. Live. Life’s short.

To my family, especially JS & ZS, though I’m miles away, I am thinking of you all so much. I hope this post was OK for me to share. Love you.

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